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9 9 REAL LOVE, NO JUDGEMENT
REAL LOVE, NO JUDGEMENT

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“Real magic in relationships means an absence of judgement eal magic in relationships means an absence of judgement
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True love is only where no judgement is. If you love someone with all your heart,

you don’t judge them in any situation. You will not judge them according to what you
have heard about them. Let us learn about this topic through a story.

A father and his daughter were playing in the park. His daughter spottedspotted an apple
v
vendorendor. She asked her father to buy an
apple for her. The father didn’t bring
much money with him, but it was

enough to purchase two apples. So,

he bought two apples and gave them
to his daughter.

His daughter held one apple each in
her two hands. Then her father asked

her if she could share one apple with

him. Upon hearing this, his daughter
quickly took a bite from one apple. And

before her father could speak, she took a bite from the second apple also.

The father was surprised. He wondered what mistake he made in raising his daughter

that she acted in such a greedy way. His mind was lost in thoughts, that perhapsperhaps he
is just thinking too much, and that his daughter is too young to understand about

sharing and giving. The smile had disappeareddisappeared from his face.

But suddenly his daughter, with an apple in her one hand, said, “Father, have this one;

it is much juicier and sweeter”. Her father was speechless. He felt bad about making
a judgementjudgement so quickly about a small child. But his smile came back now, knowing

why his daughter quickly took a bite from both the apples.

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